I’m Deepening my Work in Sex Therapy

I’m Deepening My Work in Sex Therapy — and Why It Matters for Your Relationship I’m thrilled to share some exciting professional news: I’ve been accepted into the University of Michigan’s Sex Therapy Certificate Program, one of the most respected and evidence-based sex therapy programs in the country for licensed therapists who specialize in relationships […]

Is There Such a Thing as Ethical Porn?

Yes, I didn’t know that ethical porn was a thing either. Much of my research and training over the past few years has included live trainings and books to support my clients, but not to the degree needed for me to have the depth of knowledge I know I need. Earlier this year, as part […]

Emotionally Focused Therapy or The Gottman Method: Which Is Right for Your Relationship?

If you’re considering couples therapy, you’ve probably come across two leading approaches: Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman Method. Both are highly respected, research-based frameworks that help couples improve their connection—but they work in different ways. You’re probably wondering about how to choose the right approach for your relationship or maybe you don’t have […]

Harmonizing Mismatched Libidos: the Gottman Method Explains

Mismatched libidos are one of the most common, and most misunderstood issues couples face in long-term relationships. According to the Gottmans’ research-based approach, this mismatch often isn’t about incompatibility, but about differing types of desire. Spontaneous desire is what we typically think of when it comes to sexual interest—it arrives without warning, like a spark. […]